Putting The "Six 6'C's " to Work for You!

The future we want doesn't drop into our laps. In today's chaotic swirl, to get the future you want you must be clear before talking action. YOU can't make it happen. Today dating and relationships, even friendship and marriages can be confusing enough with out trying so hard or wasting energy to "make" something happen or come together.

We need to understand that everyone brings "stuff” to the relationship. Someone can or you should enter into dating and friendships by being responsible.

The responsibility is to self, a knowing you will be there for you when you are attracting and inspiring the man or women of your dreams. You hold your friendships as something of value and you now the responsibility you bring to be in a committed relationship. You know you bring you with you and you need a clear logical path to take any relationship to the next level.

These progressive steps to that path are what I call the "6 C's":

Communication, Compatibility, Chemistry, Courage, Commitment, & Clarity.

In a journal write some notes to following question or thoughts:

What does a good relationship? friendship?
- Look like? Sound Like? Feel Like?

What kind of marriage/partnership do you want?

What do you expect of someone and what can they expect of you? Is there reciprocity? Are you "Team Fit"?

What other choice do you have if a relationship becomes boring or unsatisfying rather than being alone? or sabotaging - or settling?

Ask yourself this question: Am I clear of what I want and what is important to me? Is my energy, strength and desire for fulfillment attractive? Are you creating a clear vision for your life with another?

So much of what a really great relationship is about is simply the ability to accept each other. Next what makes it great is clear, honest communication. How we talk, how we listen, how we solve challenges and still stay passionate to a committed relationship.

Be Clear – Be Happy, with yourself and others along your way. “Where there is no vision, the people perish.” –proverbs 23:18

And there you have it, vision - with out it, we will have no compelling future! Be "Team Fit" and use the 6 'C's to help you and to help keep you, and the people in your life - going.

To the future! It will be here tomorrow!